The Battle We All Face (And the Things I Can’t Stop Thinking About)

We’ve all been there—staring at our screens, wallets in hand, debating whether that one thing is a need or just a burning want. As much as we try to be responsible, sometimes the thrill of the hunt (or the dopamine hit of a new obsession) wins. Today, I’m breaking down three things I’m dying to have—and whether they’re worth the hype (and the cash).


1. Labubu: The Mischievous, Must-Have Blind Box Sensation

First up, if you’ve scrolled through TikTok or Instagram lately, you’ve probably seen Labubu—the toothy, pointy-eared monster taking over Pop Mart’s blind boxes. Created by Hong Kong artist Kasing Lung, this fuzzy little troublemaker is part of The Monsters series, inspired by Nordic folklore.

Why Everyone’s Obsessed

  • Blind Box Thrill: Each $27.99 box is a surprise—will you get a common Labubu or the ultra-rare “secret” version? The gamble is addictive, and resellers mark them up to hundreds for rare finds.
  • Celeb-Approved: Blackpink’s Lisa and Rihanna have been spotted accessorizing with Labubu, turning it into a luxury fashion flex.
  • Emotional Connection: Fans say Labubu “heals their inner child”—adorable, collectible, and just a little bit weird.

The Hunt for the Secret Labubu

Here’s the thing—scoring the secret variant is like winning the lottery. Restocks sell out in seconds, and fans camp outside Pop Mart stores overnight. Pro tip: Join r/labubu for restock alerts—or accept that your wallet might hate you after eBay markups.

Verdict: Pure want—but oh, what a fun one.


2. Praying Mantis Pet: The Ultimate Low-Maintenance Predator

Next on my list? Forget cats and dogs—I’ve been eyeing a praying mantis as my next pet. These fierce little hunters are surprisingly easy to care for, but picking the right species is key.

Top Mantis Species for Beginners

  • Chinese Mantis: Hardy and common, great for first-timers (but cannibalistic—keep them solo!).
  • Ghost Mantis: A communal species (less likely to eat each other) with a leaf-like camouflage.
  • Orchid Mantis: Stunning pink-and-white looks, but needs higher humidity for molting.

Care Basics

  • Habitat: A small, ventilated tank (3x their height) with sticks for molting (check this starter kit).
  • Food: Live crickets, moths, or fruit flies (no veggies—they’re strict carnivores).
  • Pro Tip: Avoid buying hatchlings—opt for 3rd instar or older for easier care.

Verdict: A need for bug lovers, a want for the squeamish.


3. JNCO Jeans Shorts: The ’90s Comeback We Didn’t Know We Needed

Finally, nostalgia is hitting hard, and JNCO’s Twin Cannon shorts (in black and blue) are calling my name. These ultra-baggy, skate-style shorts are a throwback to the late ’90s/Y2K era—and they’re back in a big way.

Why They’re Trending

  • Statement Piece: Not just shorts, but a fashion flex with massive pockets and that iconic wide-leg fit.
  • Resale Craze: Vintage JNCOs go for hundreds, making new drops a (slightly) cheaper alternative.
  • Comfort Factor: Breathable, loose, and perfect for summer.

Verdict: A want—but if you love streetwear, maybe a justifiable one.


Final Thoughts: The Fine Line Between Need and Want

At the end of the day, needs keep us alive—but wants make life fun. Whether it’s a rare Labubu, a pet mantis, or those iconic JNCO shorts, the thrill of the chase is half the joy. So, what’s your latest guilty-pleasure want? Drop yours in the comments—no judgment here!

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